This is just something that has gotten me pissed off latley. I am beginning to learn this, and I'm sure that a lot of you guys out there agree with this too. Some (and by some I mean MOST) girls act like complete bitches. The sad part is that in their twisted mines they just don't see it or don't care. Girls at a very young age learn the power that they have over men, and they exploit this to the extreme. It is so easy for them to get almost anything they want from us, and we fall for it almost everytime don't we! They have learned just how easy it is, and that's why they do it so often, and so mercilessly.
Here is a simple example, I had this one female co-worker that I initially didn't like but over time we got closer and I ended up falling for her. She was always friendly, would flirt with me all the time, always help me, etc and I would do the same. I felt a close connection between us, but she just recently got a new job. Right before she left I asked her to hang out she said yes, I got her number, etc. So in about two weeks I text her casually so we could start talking and I was going to lead it into setting up plans to hang out. She never answered. Ok so no big deal, I wait a few more days try again and all I get back is a "hey". Wtf am I suppose to do with that, and to make it even worse it took her an hour to reply with that. So I respond and tell her the only two days I'm free next week, and ask if she wants to hangout. FOUR hours later, she says she has to work both of those days. So I say, "well maybe this weekend I should get out of work pretty early"...and guess what no response! If you told me you wanted to hangout then what's with the total lack of interest! I know this isn't the best example, I actually have much better ones but this was fresh in my mind and I was pissed about it.
I just hate flakey girls like this so much! I just don't get it with you girls. You act so friendly in person, but whenever it comes to actual hanging out/dates you just go insane. In person you act so flirty and interested, you give me your number and say that you would love to hangout or some other bullshit, but you (almost) never do! (I'm no loser either, I play sports, have a job, am very smart, funny, above average looking...) I'll give you girls all a hint, guys DO NOT like playing these fucking games, it is aHUGE turnoff, I know a lot of you guys feel the way I do right now. Another thing why lie and say yes to hanging out and then not show, or end up cancelling it's just so pointless and a waste of my time. I am no weakling and will always stand up for myself and my friends, but some of you girls out there think a guy is needy, weak or w/e if he texts you too soon or keeps asking you questions. NO that is not usually the fucking case, is it possible that the guy just actually likes you and might actually care for you! That would be terrible wouldn't it, and the funny part is the you girls think it's funny when a guy does this. What, does it give you a big ego boost or something. Do you know how much courage it took for the guy to even ask you out, if you girls weren't so scared of getting your own feelings hurt maybe you would take some risks and ask out a guy for once or tell him how you feel...but I know that will never happen (atleast with most girls).
So here's what it comes down to. ALMOST all girls are bitches, atleast deep down. They are bitches to eachother and to guys they don't see worthy enough. Even if a girl is acting nice to you, watch out because she just might want something. I see it everyday with guys at school, the store, everywhere. If you ever see a stunning girl smile at you, bat her eye lashes and ask you to do a "little" favour. Watch out because there is a very good chance that she's laughing inside "that another guy fell for that same old trick again". There is that slight possibilty that she might see it as an act of kindness, or she might actually like you, however these days those chances are slim. I know things won't change and that girls will continue to exploit guys and the guys will keep falling for it, but I just figured I'd vent a bit and throw my two cents out there...
I´m sorry you feel this way. But I think what you are describing is a flakey girl, and a user, more than a bitch, as in a stuck up evil girl/woman who puts others down. You might have to develop your intuition and get better at reading peoples motives. I hope it works out for you. I´m guilty of acting like a real bitch quite often actually. I did it just today, and I feel so bad about it. It gets worse when I´m around the guy I like. I´m have the worst attitude with him, I ignore him, look the other way, act stuck up and so on. The truth is that I do this out of self-protection. I am not evil. I have gone home numerous tmes and cried because I´m so sad that I can´t show him love. And sometimes I cry because I feel ignored by him. I´m very sensetive. I wouldn´t call myself immature. I try to be good to all people, I even do charity, but in certain situations I just feel so scared, and that´s when I go into bitch-mode. You are right. Bitches are plain annoying, but I think some have depper issues and some are really sensetive inside and do this out of self-protection. It´s an immature thing, but it´s not always easy to be mature. We´re only human.
ReplyDeleteIt is important to understand the truth in that statement. I get it all the time, the bitchiness, and the game it conceals; don't take it too seriously, don't take it to heart, and don't press the girl. If she is interested she will let you know in her own way; and you may or may not recognize it when she does. Women try to play games with me all of the time instead of simply performing their job or function; but it tells me that they are trying to get something started.
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DeleteI blame today's culture and tv shows. Take Jersey shore and all those reality shows, I notice almost a lot of girls acting like it. And when they hurt someone, they expect people to get over it and not apologize. Take it from me, I have sister that treats my whole family like that. I finally stood up to her and now she treats me like trash. The whole family sees it but is not willing to do anything about it. She hardly does anything in the family and will easily call us out if we forget to do something. She was even mean to me when I tried to help her do laundry. She's making so much drama that she's making me look like I am the villain. She was very hypocritical as well: For ex: Every time, she asks me where I am going, I tell her but if vice versa, she gives me no answer or a sassy remark: "Like out?" And she called me out one time because I refuse to tell her where I was going. I deal with this sometimes at school or work and its bad I have to live with one 24/7. Its funny how women want to take charge or be on top, but yet, they will crumble because they expect men to love them, when you pretty much pushed them away due to your bitch attitude.
ReplyDeleteThink about it: Women are emotional beings. When they are not emotional or able to utilize their emotions, they don't feel much like women. Theoretically, that puts them in the category as men. This is how it's been from the beginning.The serpent made Eve FEEL like she had the authority to make her own decision.
ReplyDeleteYou mean that women are emotional tyrants, and that emotions are oftentimes a man's blind spot, so that a man does not always realize that he is being manipulated or abused through emotions. And, as far as women always trying to get men to open up emotionally to them, it reminds me of the story about Samson, who is blinded and imprisoned by his enemies after he reveals the secret of his strength to the woman he loves, because she conspires with others against him. Women you know bring all of the men they have known into the relationship that they are having with you, psychologically speaking. And these men are for the most part rivals and competitors.
DeleteBefore the wedding: woman is a black widow . After the wedding : woman is a white goose.
ReplyDeleteIt's actually quite simple. If she's interested, she'll make it easy for you. You wouldn't believe what kind of shit they're able to tolerate if they're interested. If she's not interested, she'll rarely say it explicitly (that's the unfair/bitchy part, she simply avoids uncomfortable situations). Instead she'll act wishy-washy and hope you get the idea. That of course won't prevent her from enjoying your attention in the process :) So, what's a man supposed to do? Fuck the months of flirting and just go for it - if she flakes at least you know where you stand, saving months of time in the process. You learned the hard way that even months of flirting don't mean much. It's only when you go for it that you find out.
ReplyDeleteMaybe men need to stop putting women on the pedestal, that may be the reason why they're such cunts. And the media is flaring up feminism and making men look like idiots
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DeleteI think that the most horrible beings are female bitches. I've had so much abuse by them,that I'm afraid of making friends. Most of the women are very good hypocrites and emotionaly stupid. But never forget that each human has a brain that works differently so there is still hope!!
ReplyDeleteI'm sure there are women who know to be emotional smart mature and logic and practical at the same time. Youll just need to search a lot and in the right places and with the right way.
Women but you can't live without them my my wife made me say it lol
ReplyDeleteWow, this thread is till going. I will say this. I run a theory that the more women to male ratio in a specific locale, the higher women via men, increases success of attachment. I also believe the more attractive the women are, universally, in that locale, the more insecure they will become (due to a need to fight eachother if a man presents himself). I believe those are the two critical factors.
ReplyDeleteI just find women often represent a counteraction to how the environment treats them. If women are depressed, lonely, and scared, then they will act bubbly. be accommodating, and outgoing if pushed for an average man. If they are happy, social, and fearless then they play mind games on the average man. Shrugs*
Well i say Satan created women
ReplyDeletedude i totally agree
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DeleteGod created women not satan
Deletedude i like where you are coming from this and this has happened to me alot throught my years but i just learned to truly love yourslef and then when it come down to it then we can find that one girl but if you dont truly love yourself then you can find that one special person but the games women play are really stupid and i agree with you about how they should just tell a guy how they really feel and then we can see if we are wasting our time or the work we put in will pay off for it.
ReplyDeletedude i like where you are coming from this and this has happened to me alot throught my years but i just learned to truly love yourslef and then when it come down to it then we can find that one girl but if you dont truly love yourself then you can find that one special person but the games women play are really stupid and i agree with you about how they should just tell a guy how they really feel and then we can see if we are wasting our time or the work we put in will pay off for it.
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ReplyDeleteNot all woman are like this, a lot of woman are sweet and kind and not mean and harsh and what you may say is a ''bitch''. You wouldn't have been born without your mother, you need woman to survive in the world, and I know that in our time now a lot of them are wearing really shitty clothing, this is a really sexist post and please understand that woman need to be respected as much as men do.
ReplyDeleteAll women a are bitches ?
ReplyDeleteI thingso 99.99.99.99.x% is true
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I agree to an extent ..with women as a man you have to check your emotions at the door because women expect us to deal with their emotions because they feel they are the more fragile creatures. But when women come across a man like your self who is emotionally vested, it throws them off. Because they don't know how to handle you. So all the nice normal girls don't want to deal with our shit . Sooooooooo in turn we attract all the stuck up snobby bitches who have issues themselves and they in turn play the gender card against because they are females and physically weaker they feel they have an upper advantage. Also women are on different time schedules. It takes them longer than men to do do things and decide on things. Ever watch a women shop? They can be in one store for hours. How long does it take you to shop 15minutes? 30minutes an hr? Longest I've been in a store is 2 1/2 hours just to get fitted for a suit and lost my mind. Point is women are way more patient than men. We see something we want and we want to right away.women have to take the time to think if they want it or not. Point being is you have to be more patient with women. Ever have a phone conversation with a women. It's an hr minimum. Ever have a phones conversation with your buddy? 15 minutes tops.
ReplyDeleteOk another point to touch in your article. The reason why women don't respond right away to texts and phone calls or you think that you are being blown off is because they receive so much many more emails and texts from guys than we did. Think about it you're not the only male counterpart texting her trying to hit her up she gets it Up 5 times a day bro. And this is the game that we play other men look at it as a game I don't they try to compete against other guys to get more girls that's just the way human nature is unfortunately. Do I agree with it? No I'm more of an introvert guy and I don't really like them was stuck-up snobby women. That is why I'm single right now and I'm actually happy with my life I'm working on myself and when the right time comes I will meet the right person thank you bye.
I worked as a pharmacy tech for years but when they hired a young, spritely female pharmacist fresh from university, I was incensed that suddenly professional standards had been thrown out the window because of the rapid escalation of female over-sexualization and the perceived need to hire sexually diverse employees. No problem with her as a woman- only thing is, she would report to work (IN A HOSPITAL, AS A MEDICAL PROFESSIONAL) in skin-tight leggings that would frequently be transparent. Not like you could see her thong if you squinted and stared creepily, but like she was actually some weird sex freak trying to exhibit her fertility to a bunch of men, most of whom were 40+. Don't women have any scrap left of HEALTHY shame for their bodies??? Being confident does not mean you walk around in public trying to emulate nudity because you find comfort in being a sex object controlled by the attention men give you... can a woman not take dignity in merely herself knowing she is a woman?? Can't girls wear clothes that we can't see through? It's discouraging and digusting having to pick a girl that advertises her body like it's something to be proud of, when all the worthwhile, emotionally strong men don't give a shit- the body is just a vessel FOR THE MIND! It is our tool to facilitate our minds desires. Try building a house with your thoughts. That is how men view the body... but women see it as their essence, their mind is just an annoying obstacle to them and that is what is most disheartening. None of us are mysoginists here, we're just sad at the state of feminism right now. It's been rigged to pull women backwards in time and we can't do anything to stop it- we have the most to lose here, men like wholesome, competent women! If they are all gone then all we have left are the... weirdos... that think they're the normal ones, walking around society at-large with g-strings and pierced nipples visible, going "so what?" Well the 'so what' is the destruction of society, lady, now go put some fuckin jeans on so little kids don't see your perfectly framed ass, you damaged goods, you
ReplyDeleteI'll say this much.. women are very guilty of playing mind or emotional games and purposely exploiting men they feel can "use" to their at legislature. The sad part is there is no age limit to this behavior. Women in their teens into even 60's still play these stupid games. Its sickening really & i definitely agree that unfortunately, many men still fall for women's bullshit. Many women try to play victim & it's just another lie they sell and in turn cast doubt on the real victims. I honestly believe it has a every thing to do with physical looks, education, and what part of the world they come from. Truth of the matter is, it's never going to stop because its about power. If a woman feels she can manipulate you.. she'll do it until another fool or better opportunity comes along.
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DeleteThey were born with a very severe mental problem unfortunately.
ReplyDeleteGod forbid if many of us men will try to start a conversation with one of these retards which can be very dangerous for us now since they will even Curse at us most of the time too.
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